Why You Can’t Find a Job at 45

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Some of the hardest hit job seekers are those in their 40’s and beyond. They’re in that terrible epicenter of not being high enough on the totem pole to be “saved” by job cuts and too far away from the bottom to be affordable and re-trainable. So out go the resumes, and the phone calls to past colleagues, friends, and business associates. If you’re one of the unlucky mid-40’s recently unemployed and can’t land a decent job, there are things you may be doing to unintentionally torpedo your job search.

You’re Touting Too Much Experience

Most employers are looking for someone with 3-8 years of experience. Structure your resume to show that you have 8 years of experience in the job being advertised. Do the same if you’re called in for an interview. Too many job seekers over 40 proudly boast of having 20 or 25 years experience in the field. This immediately sets up a “disconnect” between the candidate and the more than likely younger boss he or she will be working for. And don’t make the mistake of saying you’re ready for a change. Roy Cohen, career coach and author of The Wall Street Professional’s Survival Guide notes that such a statement leaves the impression you’re bored and possibly unmotivated.

You’re Touting Omnipotence

Some over-40 job seekers claim they know it all—every aspect of a prospective employer’s business. Their resumes are four pages long and their interviews drag as they relate “war stories” about how they “bagged the whale” in sales or how they saved their last employer from financial ruin. Touting specifics about improving efficiencies and saving a company money have their place, but it’s best to keep them short and limited to a response to a question by the interviewer. Too much braggadocio can make you seem cocky and un-trainable. Not good.

You’re Touting Ancient Technology

Talking about the computers and programs you used in your last job can make you appear “fossilized.” This supports the contention that over-40 job seekers are out of touch with tech. If you used ancient programs and devices in your last job, stay mum. If asked, recall the research you dug up (or should have) on the prospective employer’s systems and name drop them, adding that you’re familiar with these systems. Mary Eileen Williams, author of' Land the Job You Love: 10 Surefire Strategies for Jobseekers Over 50  lists three tech-training sites over 40s can use to brush up on tech skills: Lynda.com, GCFlearnfree.org and Microsoft Office Training.

You’re Touting Your Monetary Worth

You may have pulled in a nice six-figure salary in your last job, but that could have been one reason you were let go. Today’s employers are under tremendous pressure to cut costs, which is why they keep hiring college grads with limited experience. So keep your salary requests in line with the dozens of younger, hungry applicants vying for the job you want. For some handy tips, check out Jake Williamson’s book, Salary Negotiation Tips: How to Determine What You're Worth and Get It!

Over 45 and can’t land a job? You’re touting too much and scouting too little. Try the suggestions mentioned above and get busy.

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  • ROSEMARIECELLAMARE
    ROSEMARIECELLAMARE
    In response to your article.I feel that peolpe need to be in the job seeker's shoes awhile and then perhaps write some article that pertain to the person who is out of work and at the mercy of the hiring company,etc.. I can't wait to hear what advise is given to the person over 60 with many years of experience.
  • Mark Karczewski
    Mark Karczewski
    The article is interesting but seems too much like a "one size fits all" mentality. In the field of engineering, for instance, there is a great shortage of 'seasoned' senior Designers to help and assist younger engineers. Reaon: The companies expect the young engineers to do everything from engineer all the way down to the CAD drafting. I have had several young (in their early 20's) engineers come to me for everything from common sense organizational skills to how to ask all the right questions of vendors on the phone and in person. With us senior positioned designers and even advanced CAD drafters in place, the engineers find it easier to get their project done in a timely manner. I, myself, am retiring next year and have been told by the younger engineers they will miss me for all the valuable information they were never taught in school. PS: I've never had a problem landing a job in all the companies I worked over my 45 plus years in engineering. Your article just scrapes the surface but is not a 'fit all' across the business world.
  • Rebecca Relliquette
    Rebecca Relliquette
    Yeah, see how u feel when ur over 40, if ur lucky enough to live that long. It's soooooooo old! Haha!
  • randall stacy
    randall stacy
    do not forget the faith factor....God can leD YOUOR YOUR NEW EMPLOYER TO THE RIGHT SPOT..AN ARCHITECT FRIEND WAS LED TO A COFFEE SHOP AND MET HIS NEW BOSS
  •  Joe Nihom
    Joe Nihom
    On first look sounds good. When I show up, however, how do i align 8 years of service with 62 years of age?  What else have I done for the past 30 years. Also, my experience and knowledge is precisely what I have to offer an organization
  • Lisa Owens
    Lisa Owens
    definitely something I can work on being 45. any touting experience that I have is to benefit the company first. This article is a plus for me. Thanks
  • Patricia Dinslage
    Patricia Dinslage
    Sounds great.  But what about those of us who are over 60, still have to work, but don't want just "greeter" jobs at Walmart?
  •  Mark Langley
    Mark Langley
    As some of the other over 50 crowd has mentioned, this article covered everything my resume has listed.  It is so easy in today's volatile job market to talk (or print) yourself out of it. That is why I hired a professional resume writer to create a grabbing resume for me using all the "buzz words" these online application systems seem to be looking for that will get me noticed.  This article made me think I made the "write" decision.
  • Marilyn Bibeau
    Marilyn Bibeau
    Very good advice!
  •  Ida Trygen
    Ida Trygen
    I am a medical professional in my early 50's and am planning to change jobs within the year. I just went back to school to pursue a Masters degree in Nursing Education. You need alot of ammuntion in this current job market and you are never too old to learn! Don't give up, there is something out there for everyone.
  • William Johnson
    William Johnson
    Thank you for the post on a subject seldom discussed.  Will keep recommendations in mind.
  • Charles Brown
    Charles Brown
    Very good information.
  • Tina Jones
    Tina Jones
    Great food for thought.  Thanks for the links to free learning.  I found these invaluable!
  • Jim Eroche
    Jim Eroche
    I' am 55 years old and lost my last full time job 2 years ago.  26 years doing medical ultrasound.  My experience seems to be a problem, especially in this screwed up health care environment we are presently in.  At this age you are better off doing something independently if you can.  I now run two small businesses that did not take more than $1,500 out of my own pocket to start, including LLC registry fees.  Think outside the box.  Forget what you used to do, if that was working for you, you would not be looking for a job.  At this age you have to be your own boss to really be viable.  Stop looking for someone else to work for and go for it!!
  • David Marshall
    David Marshall
    Some good info to use - over 60 trying to continue life in a new direction thanks
  • Richard Staehs
    Richard Staehs
    It was an eye opener for sure. I've made 2 or 3 of these mistakes but I can see where I need to correct them....back to square 1.....again.
  • GunarSteen
    GunarSteen
    great advice
  • Kat Ryan
    Kat Ryan
    Wow, Very honest. I guess the recent offers I had I could agree that they are for 20 somethings. I don't feel that my computer skills are old as I have worked on the latest systems as required by employers. What bothers me is what about the fact that companies are not allowed to view your age as a reason not to hire you. How do they get away with that. At mid 40 I do find that working with a younger supervivor can be difficult at times...ofcourse we know some things they don't...but I never viewed that as a reason not be be hired.
  • Greg Cady
    Greg Cady
    So, basically, you're advocating dishonesty in both the resume and the interview or, at least, stretching the truth.  What happens when you "name drop" the employer's new technology, indicating you are familiar with it, get hired, and are then expected to live up to that claim or any other thinly-veiled lie you put forth?  I might as well include a degree I didn't really earn.
  •  Lisa Hooter
    Lisa Hooter
    excellent article!
  • Debbie Short
    Debbie Short
    Talk about negative......
  • Mario Cohn
    Mario Cohn
    Thanks for depressing me. So basically since I'm over 40 I should act younger and get paid less. Shoot me now and put me out of my misery.
  • Richard Ash
    Richard Ash
    Yep, I'm 60 and was making 2 of the listed mistakes. Going to go fix that now.
  • Marjorie Boyd
    Marjorie Boyd
    This is one of the best, and possibly most accurate, articles I've read in months and/or years.  As an over 50 job seeker who would like to actually change careers I find that I'm guilty of several items mentioned above and will make a sincere effort to make changes for all future job applications ~ thank you very much
  • Danny Wilson
    Danny Wilson
    Your article informing, but not 100 percent true.  Companies and industries that follow this mind set tend to lack good leadership and judgement, which in return create missed opprotunities in advancing thier business.  Very foolish methodology for any company to apply.

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