Are You a Desperate Job Seeker?

John Krautzel
Posted by in Career Advice


Employers are attracted to job seekers who are confident about their abilities, making recruiters wary of desperate pleading and gimmicks. Desperation is a sign that you don't care about your career and want the position for the wrong reasons. No matter how badly you need employment, avoid these off-putting acts of beggary, and show recruiters you're a valuable asset to the company.

1. Unlimited Availability

Hiring managers expect well-rounded job seekers to have active, fulfilling lives, so it's not a trick question when they ask for your availability. The recruitment process can involve multiple phone calls and interviews, which requires some schedule management for typical professionals with families and personal hobbies. Ultimately, you don't want to give the impression that you have nothing else going on in your life.

2. Constant Follow-Up

Desperate job seekers take the words "knowledge is power" too seriously. Fearful of being out of the loop, they stalk recruiters with constant phone calls or emails to make sure they're still being considered. Unfortunately, this type of relentless pursuit can end your candidacy and send the message that you don't have boundaries or respect for the recruiter's personal time.

3. Few or Shallow Questions

When you skip the question stage or only stick to precursory information, hiring managers assume you aren't interested or need the job so badly that you don't care about the details. Discerning job seekers care about professional fulfillment and cultural fit, motivating them to seek in-depth information about the company's expectations, the chain of command and the realistic challenges of the role.

4. No Salary Requirements

Establishing a salary range shows employers that you know the value of your skills while helping recruiters determine whether your expectations line up with the company's budget. Accepting any salary may seem like a way to boost your appeal, but employers see you as someone with no standards or self-worth.

5. Eager to Please

Desperate job seekers often say whatever they think hiring managers want to hear instead of discussing their professional needs, skills and work style. The recruitment process is a two-way street, and you give up your power when you let recruiters take control of your career path.

6. Shameless Gimmicks

Desperation can make an honest job seeker cross the line with unprofessional gimmicks, ranging from using props in interviews to sending inappropriate gifts to recruiters. Every job candidate brings distinct strengths to the table, and gimmicks discourage recruiters from taking you seriously.

7. Immediately Accepts the Offer

Taking time to think about a job offer allows you to weigh the benefits and consider how your career goals align with the position. Saying "yes" right away shows employers you don't have other options and don't care about where you work.

Finding a job is like starting a relationship, and failing to vet the company can lead to dissatisfaction and poor engagement in the future. Even when times are tough, avoid becoming a desperate job seeker by reminding yourself of the unique strengths and character traits that make you a great hire.


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  • CL S.
    CL S.

    You got to be proud of yourself and your achievements over your career path. Don't sell yourself short on your next career. A satisfied and happy person will be more efficient and productive and will normally out-perform their job requirement because they loved what they do.

  • CL S.
    CL S.

    I like your articles very much. It is very true. A career is another part of your life and you need to love working in your career in order to succeed in your objectives.

  • Audrey F.
    Audrey F.

    Thank you for clear instructions on how to approach my job seeking journey. Its not easy sending out hundreds of resumes and no response.

  • Jacinta N.
    Jacinta N.

    This was very helpful..

  • David M.
    David M.

    These were good ideas to keep in mind

  • Theresa N.
    Theresa N.

    Thank you for this information. Looking for a new career after 25 years, it will help.

  • BRIAN N.
    BRIAN N.

    Great stuff

  • Mark West
    Mark West

    Totally!

    I always approach the interview with a nonchallant approach. People who are turned off by that vibe are probably the kind of people I'd hate to work for.

    Just because someone is interested in me, doesn't mean I need to ask to lick their boots. Play hard to get, even when a recruiter desperately wants to send you in.

    When I do interview, I'm calm, collected and genuine. I approach it kinda like I'm having a friendly chat over dinner. I don'y mind speaking in the vernacular and I'm honest.

    It usually works like a charm ;-)

  • Alice S.
    Alice S.

    Great information!

  • ahmed shah
    ahmed shah

    very important rules

  • Jonathan Chapman
    Jonathan Chapman

    Definitely everything that I'm doing...insightful piece

  • Nancy Anderson
    Nancy Anderson

    Thanks for the great comments. @Authurine if you can, stay as a staff nurse with your current salary until you get the bulk of your student loan paid off. Or maybe you could do part-time in each position -at different hospitals? It's tough breaking in to something new - for sure. @Sandip thanks for that. So very true. If you receive an offer, take some time to consider it. It does truly make you look desperate if you jump on it as soon as it's offered. @Deborah so sorry about your circumstances. It makes me so mad that employers take advantage of retail workers... have them on-call so that they can't find a second job and fire them if they don't come running when they are called. Many retailers have been forced to stop their on-call policies due to lawsuits but I do hear that many of them still try to pull that. Is it possible to find a retailer that doesn't force the on-call policy? There's no answer for you here except to get out of retail. Are there other industries around where you could apply? Too bad there isn't a way for all of the retail workers in your area to band together and refuse the on-call policies - kind of like the workers @McDonald's did to up their wages. Best of luck to all of you.

  • Deborah Swaitkewich
    Deborah Swaitkewich

    I agree with what you have said, but some of it depends on the kind of job you are applying for. Retail is the main industry where I live and you have to have unlimited availability because you are basically on call and will be called in with little notice. I don't see too much concern from other employers around here that employees have a well rounded life either. It seems a lot of them want you to be at their beck and call. As far as wages go, the employer sets the wage and you take it or leave it and if you don't immediately accept the job they will hire someone else.

  • tyrone b.
    tyrone b.

    Still have the ability to learn and grow in My craft. .

  • sandip  p.
    sandip p.

    Taking time to think about a job offer allows you to weigh the benefits and consider how your career goals align with the position. Saying "yes" right away shows employers you don't have other options and don't care about where you work.

    Finding a job is like starting a relationship, and failing to vet the company can lead to dissatisfaction and poor engagement in the future. Even when times are tough, avoid becoming a desperate job seeker by reminding yourself of the unique strengths and character traits that make you a great hire.

  • AUTHURINE H.
    AUTHURINE H.

    I am a seasoned RN but a brand new APRN. I understand that it is hard to break into this market. But with a looming student loan one does get worried. My salary as a staff nurse is already way above average, so I am in a pickle trying to find a job that would at the least, pay a salary similar to what I am now getting.

  • Rene A.
    Rene A.

    Great article!

  • Nancy Anderson
    Nancy Anderson

    Thanks everyone for your great comments. @Crystal R and @Reginald Williams - best of luck on your new business ventures. @Renee if you are using an agency, they will tell you, up-front, what the salary is. If the position is through a company, do some research. Check out a site like salary.com so that you can get a pretty good idea of the range that is being paid for such a position. Then you will know whether or not to apply. If the job posting asks you to submit your salary requirements, you will have an educated guess as to what the range is and you won't get knocked out because your requirements were greater than what they would be willing to pay - like for ml j. It's typically better to go in the middle - such as for a $14-16 range - choose $15. Hope this helps. Again - best of luck for those who are striking out on their own.

  • ml j.
    ml j.

    What if ,hypothetically,the job offers a range of $14-$16/hr? You don't know this. You set your price at $17 and resume gets rejected bc you're too expensive or you set your price at $13 and you get the low balled offer of what you should have received. I guess research is the answer

  • Crystal R.
    Crystal R.

    Reginald Williams, I am too. I was laid off the end of April and have had a few interviews that seemed to go well but no offer, 2 weeks ago I interviewed for a position through a temp agency and per their feedback: it was all positive but apparently I was "too good" WOW... but I too decided this job scene is quire horrific (cost benefit analysis) and I have to generate income myself with the skills I have amassed & performed well with for others! Good luck to all.

  • Crystal R.
    Crystal R.

    Kimberly C. I thought I was being unreasonable, and if I were on the other side I would be more than embarrassed to make such a vulgar "non offer" to you which makes me wonder what job you applied for that $9/hr. would even be possible (rhetorical). Good article though,

  • Reginald Williams
    Reginald Williams

    I'm not desperate for a job any more because of the employment scene isn't fun any more . I'm trying to get my own business started now.

  • Renee B.
    Renee B.

    I am disillusioned with the whole employment scene. The employer/or agency should post up front what wage they are willing to pay so you are not wasting both persons time. It is an employeers market so they can get away with paying little and not valuing SKILLS.

  • Robert Carter
    Robert Carter

    I applied recently , I said requested salary is $400 weekly, I have my own medical insurance, they gave me $800 per week, I worked 10 days they paid me for 13 days, I as let go, I has a 5 minute commute

  • Nancy Anderson
    Nancy Anderson

    Thanks for the great comments. @Robert the world of job hunting has changed so much - even just over the past year. Maybe it does sound like bull but it works. @Lawrence in some cases yes you would accept the offer immediately. But typically, salary is not discussed until an offer is made. Prior to going to an interview @Kimberly, make sure that you have done your research so that you know what the salary range might be for the position. Why waste your time applying for a job, waiting for a response, going through several rounds of interviews only to turn the job down in the end because the salary is not in align with your expectations. Companies offer $9/hr to those with PhD's also! Bottom line is not to appear "too desperate" so that you can have some room for negotiations and know the salary range going in. Truly, if you research and find that the salary range is not in keeping with what you need to live - don't apply.

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