Ways to Keep Your Head Up When The Job Search Drags on

Nancy Anderson
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Seeking employment can be frustrating, demanding and tiresome. You're constantly submitting applications, going on interviews and updating your resume. The days of searching for work may turn into weeks and months. The longer you go without a job offer, the more stressful the process becomes. Despite all of this, it is important to stay positive during your job search, and here are some ways to accomplish that.

Build a Support System

Being unemployed for an extended period of time can create feelings of isolation and loneliness. Ask your close friends, family members and former colleagues for support during this time, and make it a point to meet with them regularly during your job search, as keeping yourself isolated may enhance feelings of depression. Being social does not necessarily require money; try meeting a friend at a park for a walk or a game of volleyball. Volunteering is another great way to connect with friends and loved ones, and the experiences you gain can even enhance your resume.

Keep Learning

Being knee-deep in your job search is no excuse to stop improving yourself. Use this time to increase your knowledge of relevant subjects, or try reading motivational books, such as Stephen R. Covey's "7 Habits of Highly Effective People." Spend time at the free public library, and attend local seminars and networking events. Continuously learning new things breaks up the monotony of a job search while preparing you to become a more effective employee.

Take Regular Breaks

This may seem counterintuitive, but it is important to step away from your job search and unwind regularly. Searching for a job can be as demanding as a full-time job, so taking time off to gain perspective and recharge is imperative. Take regular walks, join an adult sports league or take a short road trip to visit a friend for a few days. What you do with this time doesn't matter, as long as it temporarily takes you away from the daily grind.

Practice Positive Self-Talk

Going weeks and months without positive feedback from potential employees can breed feelings of self-doubt. No matter how your interviews are going, train yourself to always stay positive. Regularly remind yourself of your strengths and accomplishments. Practice positive visualization: keep a mental picture of your ideal career situation in the back of your mind, and remind yourself that with each passing day, you are getting closer to that ideal image.

It is important to remember that searching for a job is temporary. Many job seekers find themselves dealing with feelings of self-doubt, despair and negativity. Staying positive and remaining persistent throughout your job search helps keep those negative thoughts at bay and makes the journey to gainful employment less difficult.


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  • C. L. Z.
    C. L. Z.

    This was a good article - staying positive and having a support group that you network with is invaluable during times of transition. If you are not on LinkedIn, I would recommend setting up your profile and including "Seeking New Opportunity" in the tag line. Recruiters some times do not want to "poach" employees, so it may help with advertising that you are available and obtainable.

  • ANGEL L.
    ANGEL L.

    I just graduate from school,stay positive

  • MARIA B.
    MARIA B.

    I see that your words can help me look for a job. I have been out of work for 3 months and have had 3 interviews. I was working for over 10 years and now looking for works seen so different. A lot has change in ways an job application is done with all kinds of test, background check, now waiting for some one else to call you for another interview. It can get so frustrating . And now time for myself seems more important. Thank you..

  • Keith J.
    Keith J.

    Time for some volleyball!

  • Brinda N.
    Brinda N.

    Very well said, all are important points

  • Sandra S.
    Sandra S.

    Great advice...I felt like I would never get hired, even with my new degree! But I hung in there and before I knew it, I found the job of my dreams!

  • Janna M.
    Janna M.

    Take some free on line courses. Check with your local unemployment office to see what services they offer. I'm getting ready to sign up to take a free certification course for HR stuff that I will be able to put on my resume.

  • Nancy Anderson
    Nancy Anderson

    Thanks everyone for your comments. We are so happy that the information provided in the article was useful to you and that you are passing it on to others. We wish you all the best in your search.

  • Chona C.
    Chona C.

    Fantastic!it lessens my worries in finding a better job.

  • Yasser H.
    Yasser H.

    Really its very good and useful article and advice.

  • LINDA D.
    LINDA D.

    This is awesome, thank you all for reaching out and including me. I appreciated this on today

  • Lanise  A.
    Lanise A.

    Just what I needed to read as a recent graduate who is still searching.

  • Deborah G.
    Deborah G.

    This was very good information. I thought taking a break from looking for a job was not good and showed you're not motivated. It has been a long time for my job search. I will take all the advice in this article and make good use of it.

  • Greg Z.
    Greg Z.

    Good information. I've been on the job search for a long time. I have kept busy with daily workouts and reading books, like Stephen R. Covey's "7 Habits of Highly Effective People." and I've taken a few classes at the community college. In addition, I've taken on a volunteer role with a transition group to direct their speakers bureau, and done part-time temp work. Yes, I've also spent a lot of time sending and updating resumes, doing information interviews, practicing interviews and all too rarely, going on real interviews. This all gets old some days, but the "outside activities" hold great value. Thanks for confirming that I'm on the right track.

  • EDDIE DERISO
    EDDIE DERISO

    This information was extremely helpful. I was able to provide this information to friends and family who are experiencing a rough time right now seeking employment opportunities.

  • Nancy Anderson
    Nancy Anderson

    @Dianna not sure what happened to put you on probation and how long it will be, but, if it's going to be an extended period of time for your probation, you might want to consider picking up some temp work to keep the bills paid and a roof over your head. If the probation doesn't have to do with nursing, maybe you could pick up some time with a home health agency and help them out until you are able to get back into your field as a nurse. We wish you all the best.

  • Dianna Baray
    Dianna Baray

    How does one get a job when their license is on Probation and no one will hire you for that reason. The hardest part is that it has nothing to do with nursing!

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